I am sharing this with the fellas who didn't make the trip:
Listen here fellas:
We live in a world that is measured by value. We pay money for
things that we believe justifies the value we place upon them.
It’s the same where getting along in life is concerned…you need to
establish your VALUE first, before you can expect a return. The
days of just expecting a raise in salary just because you have been
in a job one year longer will soon be gone. Whether you work for
yourself, or work for someone else, unless you give greater value
than you expect to receive in return then you will soon be left
behind. If you work at a job give 100%. Even if your a busboy.
Be the best dam busboy in the world. Have customers crave to
be in your area.
Accept That This Shit Is Not Gonna Be Easy
Winners in life know that life isn’t easy. They know that there will
be times that they really want to give up and admit defeat. Despite
whatever setbacks they may face, they also know that as long as
they keep going things will turn around for them if they work hard
enough.
It’s easy to give up. That’s why most people do it. It’s difficult to
keep going if you are constantly knocked back, but sometimes this
is the time when a ‘breakthrough’ can occur and everything falls
into place. It’s how we view our setbacks that shape our lives
and not the setbacks themselves.
So you try something and fail miserably. So the fuck what? Didn’t you learn
something from the experience? When the going gets tough you
need to show that you can stand up and be a mutha fuckin man. Your life may
have more ups than downs, but you can still make it a success if
you learn to roll with the punches.
I’ve had a number of ‘failures’ and false-starts in my time, but I can
also say that I have learned a lot about both myself and my
business because of them. The key with allowing yourself to fail in
this way is to make sure that you don’t REPEAT the same
mistakes over and over again, which unfortunately, is what most
unsuccessful people do over their lifetime. My goal is to help save
you guys from major mistakes.
Play Life Like A Mutha Fucking Assed Game
Winners know that life is a challenge. They know that life is
a game that can be won or lost by how you view it, and not by how
you play it. Winners will challenge themselves to go that little bit further
just to see if they get more value out of whatever they are doing.
Let’s assume that we both have the same lives, and the same
experiences. Your life is miserable as hell, yet mine is wonderful.
Why? Well, you look upon life as something you just ‘do’ whereas I
look upon life as a challenge. I know that I make the rules of this
life of mine, whereas you look to blame others for your current
situation.
Life is as difficult, depressing, miserable, unhappy, and hard as
you want to make it be brothers. There are many examples of people who
have had success despite having an even worse life than yours.
Your life either has problems or it has challenges. What are
yours? You decide. It always has been yo choice.
Life IS meant to be fun, challenging, and exciting…not fucked up,
stressful, and depressing!
I’ve had some seriously bad things happen in my life over the last
two years, yet I am still the most positive member of my family! It’s
easy to choose to complain about how bad your life is, when, in
reality – there is probably a lot RIGHT with it! Once you mugs begin to
challenge yourself to achieve greater things – then you will kiss and leave
your old miserable assed life behind, and be on the path to join the
ranks of those truly successful people who love what they do and
get paid well for it!
Home work assignment:
Homework assignment:
Now ask yourselves:
- 1 -
Who Am I?
- 2 -
What Do I Want Out of My Life?
- 3 -
These Are My Strengths
(and list them)
- 4 -
These Are My Weaknesses
- 5 -
Here Are My Marks Out of Ten For
These Areas of My Life
Career /10
Money /10
Health /10
Friends and Family /10
Da game / Romance /10
Personal Growth /10
Fun and Recreation /10
Physical Environment /10
Put what percetage or number out of ten that works for you.
- 6 -
These Are the People (or Things) That
I Want With Me in My Future
example from old: Jr, my little brother but he died
Here Are the Reasons WHY I Want Them With Me
(list why you want em around you) for me it was to protect him from life even though he was 6'8 he was still my baby brother who had trouble coping with life. He didn't see life as I did and didn't grasp the flow as I did. I wanted to achieve my success to pass it on to him so that he and his family would be well provided for.)
- 7 -
Here Are The Three Words That Best Describe Me
example:
Deep, creative and enlightened.
enuff for now